“She taught us something profound: light doesn’t always mean being strong alone,” Flavin said. “Sometimes it means being gentle enough to let love in.”
“Harper didn't do anything by halves. She was extraordinary in the best way,” Flavin added. “She filled her 10 short years with so much joy and imagination, and thank God, it all counted.”
His mother described the last few weeks as "being dropped to the bottom of the ocean, where it's dark and the pressure is overwhelming, and no human is really meant to survive."
But amid their grief, Harper's parents say they are grateful for the support they have received.
“There is so much love and support lighting our way that we didn’t feel lost,” Flavin said. “Broken and heartbroken, but not lost.”
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“You supported us during the most difficult days of our lives, and we are very grateful,” Moyski added.
The aftermath of the tragedy
Students at Annunciation Catholic School are returning this week to a modified schedule, with support activities and additional security and staffing.
The church where the shooting took place will have to be re-consecrated, according to the archdiocese.
Resecration is a Catholic ritual to purify a sacred place after its desecration.
Father Matthew Crane, a canon lawyer in Minnesota, explained that in this rite, "the sanctuary is stripped in a manner consistent with Good Friday."
“After the procession, in the same manner as in the initial rite of consecration of a church, the celebrant, usually a diocesan bishop, blesses the water and then sprinkles it on the walls and the faithful,” Crane explained. “Penitential prayers are recited, and the altar is dressed with linen and candles only after these rituals are completed.”
He added that the "spiritual effects" include "purification and repair."
Crane, who has attended a re-creation before, said he was "surprised by how, by participating in this ritual, I felt connected and comfortable in the place."
"I hope that at the Annunciation, or in any Catholic community, the ritual of reconsecration will give the community a deep sense of feeling at home again in a house of God," he concluded.